A couple pulling apartThe Gottman Institute say that “distressed” couples ― those whose relationship is less stable and happy ― are more likely to see one another’s actions and words as negative, even when they’re not intended that way. This is known as negative sentiment override, they say, and often comes from resentment. The trouble with resentment, though, is that it can be hard to spot ― even by the people experiencing it, the Cleveland Clinic says. So, we thought we’d speak to psychologist and owner of Family & Forensic Solutions, Dr Celeste Simmons, and sexologist and relationship therapist Sofie Roos of